Saturday , January 23 2021
Dealing with issues of Ex in relationships

Ladies What to do if your man remains too close to his ex

In dating most times your partner would have a past; previous relationships that did not work out for reasons best known to him and the other girl[s].

There is an unending debate on whether people should be friends with their exes. On this, the belief of this writer is that inasmuch as the friendship will not interfere with one’s new relationship, there’s nothing bad in being civil with an ex.

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It’s OK if your boyfriend is quite cool with his ex. This is someone with whom he once had something beautiful, with whom he probably thought he would spend forever.

Even with things not working out between them as expected, the other babe still forms part of his history and experiences and if your boyfriend chooses to stay connected, trying to deny him of that would be selfish, insensitive and portray you as being insecure.

Obviously, such ex has become too close and if you ever find yourself in a situation like this or anything remotely close, you should demand your boyfriend cut all ties with such babe. IMMEDIATELY.

Other times when you should ask him to cease communicating with an ex

1. If he’s meeting her secretly, no matter how innocent he swears the meeting was, you should put a stop to it.

2. If he’s making sneaky phone calls to her or the chats are becoming too much.

3. If he’s sending money to her or anything of the sort without informing you about these transactions.

4. If her name keeps popping up too frequently during your communication with him.

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2 comments

  1. I think people should be clear if they want a new relationship or still want to heal. Someone who is nt heal completely is prone to give an ex a chance unless there is a visible barrier. .we should put others in emotional problems because we don’t know what we want.

  2. Hmmmm serious matter oo. Me I won’t accept this at all. What’s the reason of keeping an ex close. It will only generate feelings. It is better to lay them off if you value your present relationship

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